There’s a moment in every noise sufferer’s story when you stop saying, “I’ll get used to it,” and start saying, “I deserve better than this.”
For me, that moment came at 3:17 a.m. on a Tuesday, lying in bed with my heart thudding like it had just run a sprint. No car alarms, no sudden crashes, just the same dull hum from next door that had been creeping into my sleep for months. I’d been ignoring it, telling myself it was fine. It wasn’t.
Over the past few weeks, I’ve been sharing my trial-and-error journey with you. How rugs, gap sealing, and sound rituals became my starter toolkit. Those fixes are still working quietly in the background (bless them), but this part of the story is different. It’s about what happened when I decided to move beyond “good enough” and understand how to design my nights for rest.
This time, it is about learning how sound interacts with my space, how my brain responds to it in the middle of the night, and how a few thoughtful changes could turn chaotic, restless evenings into something I’d nearly forgotten existed: deep, unshaken sleep.
You don’t notice how much noise runs your nights until your body starts keeping score.
For me, it began subtly, groggy mornings, heavier eyelids, a creeping irritability I blamed on caffeine withdrawal. But then I started tracking my sleep with an app, and the data didn’t lie: I was waking up six to eight times a night, often during the lighter phases of sleep. That meant my brain wasn’t getting nearly enough of the deep, restorative cycles it needs to repair, reset, and regulate mood.
Sleep researchers have long warned that even low-level noise, anything over 30 dB in a bedroom, can trigger micro-arousals, those tiny awakenings that fragment sleep without fully waking you. The World Health Organization sets that 30 dB threshold for a reason. This is roughly the volume of a whisper, and still enough to startle your nervous system if it’s unexpected.
In one study from the Journal of Sleep Research, participants exposed to nighttime noise, even at modest volumes, showed higher nighttime heart rates and increased cortisol levels than those in quiet rooms. Translation? Your body stays in “alert mode,” even if your mind drifts off.
That’s when I realised I couldn’t keep hoping my neighbours would suddenly take up meditation or that the city would build a magical noise bubble around my block. If I wanted to sleep like a human again, I had to design my nights differently.
Creating a Sleep Sanctuary
Once I accepted that noise wasn’t going away completely, my focus shifted. Instead of trying to build a silent fortress, I decided to shape my bedroom into a space that would work with my body’s natural sleep processes, even if the outside world was still humming away.
Here’s the part I wish I’d learned sooner: Good sleep is about lowering your nervous system’s “background volume.” That means combining physical tweaks that tell your brain, “We’re safe! It’s time to power down.”
A 2019 meta-analysis in Sleep Medicine Reviews found that people who maintained consistent pre-sleep routines had up to 36% fewer nighttime awakenings, even in noisy environments. Rituals help regulate melatonin release and heart rate variability, two key factors for deep, restorative sleep.
So, I started thinking about my space like a conductor arranging an orchestra. This means that every element had to play in harmony.
Bed placement: I moved my bed so the headboard shared a wall with my walk-in closet instead of the hallway.
Sound layering: I kept my pink noise machine, but I paired it with soft, rhythmic sounds like ocean waves on a low loop.
Temperature and lighting: The cooler the room, the deeper the sleep. I dropped the thermostat by 2°C at night and switched to warm, dim lighting 30 minutes before bed.
And here’s the thing, when all of these worked together, it wasn’t just quieter… it felt quieter.
Thriving in the Quiet
There’s a difference between coping with noise and peace.
For the longest time, I thought my only options were to either live with it or dream about moving somewhere quieter. But now, my nights tell a different story. One where I get to wake up without that low-level tension in my shoulders, where my first thought in the morning isn’t “Ugh, I barely slept.”
The truth? Quiet is a presence. A presence of rest, of focus, of space to think clearly. And the more you create it intentionally, the more your body starts to remember what calm feels like.
That’s why I keep refining the little adjustments:
Making sure my bed faces away from the main noise source
Rotating between pink noise and guided sleep stories to keep my brain engaged just enough to drift off
Checking in with myself weekly to notice what’s working and what isn’t
Some changes might feel too small to matter. But the science, and my own experience, say otherwise. A 2023 review in Sleep Medicine Reviews found that even a 3-5 dB reduction in nighttime noise can significantly improve slow-wave sleep, the deep stage your brain uses to repair and reset.
If noise is something you’ve been “putting up with,” I hope this is your reminder that you don’t have to. You can take back your nights. You can design your own quiet.
And when you finally get there, you’ll wonder how you ever lived without it.
Intermittent and unpredictable sounds are more disruptive.
Micro-awakenings ruin sleep quality.
Soft furnishings act as passive acoustic treatment.
Small layout tweaks can make a big difference.
Your brain can be trained to sleep through noise.
It’s as easy as falling asleep! Yes, for those who can do it. This catchy aphorism is becoming more and more inapplicable for city life. Sometimes the background noise of traffic, neighbours arguing or TV booming through thin walls feels as if you live next to a nightclub.
Human societies have evolved much faster than the human body or psyche. It’s harder for us to adjust to the ever-growing noise of urban life. Big cities never sleep, and this chaos has a direct effect on our minds and, most noticeably, our sleep. Remember the last time you had to go through a whole day after a sleepless night. The worst.
There is hope! We’ll explore what makes urban noise so disruptive, what science says about sleeping through it, and how you can create a bedroom experience that truly restores you.
From Sirens to Snoring: Know Your Enemy
We use words with general meaning to simplify our lives. But when we describe complex phenomena with simple words, we can quickly get fooled. When we say noise, we view it as a single thing. But that rarely is the case.
It comes in waves, pulses, and surprises, and your brain treats each kind differently. Before you can build defences against urban noise, it helps to understand what, exactly, is keeping you up at night.
The Three Big Sleep Disrupters in Urban Areas
You enter a bar with a mysterious aura, you go to the bartender, and they serve you a cocktail of chaos, noise and disturbances. You wake up in sweat. It was a dream. Somehow you fell asleep, but now you are wide awake. But it felt so real…
Yes, because it is. It was an interpretation of the stress and insidious noise that creeps daily into your mind and body. Most people experience a mix of the following:
Traffic noise: The most common offender. Engine growls, honking, sirens, rolling garage doors, or that one delivery truck at 4:32 a.m. It’s relentless and often low-frequency, which means it travels further and penetrates most building materials easily. And if it can penetrate concrete, we don’t stand a chance.
Neighbour noise: Footsteps, doors slamming, appliances humming, music bleeding through walls, or worse: the dreaded muffled bass. These are particularly frustrating because they feel personal, unpredictable, and out of your control. Going upstairs to argue with them or bang at their door, because they can’t hear you from all the noise, would cause even more stress and fatigue. You might achieve something, but at what price?
Environmental sounds: Dogs barking, pub chatter drifting up from the street, planes overhead, construction starting before 7 a.m. Again, many of these are outside your influence, but they still shape your stress response while sleeping.
All these disturbances can obviously wake you up. There is, however, a more sneaky way that they affect your sleep. It’s called micro-awakenings.
This sleep fragmentation throughout the sleep cycle is often so short that you may not fully regain consciousness or remember it. It disrupts your natural progression through sleep stages, especially deep (slow-wave) and REM sleep, which are essential for restoration.
Even if your total sleep time looks fine on the screen of your smartwatch, fragmented sleep leads to:
Lower overall sleep quality
Poor memory consolidation
Reduced immune function
Increased fatigue and irritability
Why Intermittent Sounds Are More Disturbing Than Steady Ones
You might assume that louder noises are always worse, but in sleep science, consistency is more important than volume.
Our brains have a built-in threat detection system that never fully turns off. This system is especially sensitive to changes in sound patterns.
A steady hum might fade into the background, but a sudden horn or upstairs thud triggers a spike in cortisol – the hormone of fun (stress). It’s not the sound itself; it’s the unpredictability.
That’s why white noise and sound masking strategies often work.
White noise, pink noise, or purpose-built sound masking systems help by creating a consistent acoustic baseline. It is like a blanket of evenly distributed frequencies that masks sudden peaks in external noise.
Ok, true – technically, it doesn’t eliminate the intruding sound, but it dampens its perceptibility by making it blend into the background. Our subconscious can pay less attention to it.
For example:
A snoring partner might register as a 50 dB disturbance.
A white noise machine emitting 45 dB of broadband sound lowers the effective contrast, so the snoring no longer “pops” in your auditory field.
The Psychology of Noise: Why You Fixate on the Ticking Clock
You no longer breathe automatically. For the next few moments, you will pay attention to your breath. But that will pass, and your body will go back to doing it on its own.
Same with the ticking of a clock or the city traffic below you. In a relaxed state, your reticular activating system (RAS), the brain’s attention gatekeeper, allows benign, repetitive stimuli (like a ticking clock) to fade into the background. That’s habituation at work.
Under stress, your amygdala becomes more active. This is the part of the brain responsible for scanning for threats. When it’s on high alert, it flags even neutral sounds as potential stressors.
The ticking clock now competes with your thoughts, demanding attention it previously didn’t. Your prefrontal cortex (responsible for logic and decision-making) is overloaded with worry or rumination, and so it can’t override the annoyance like it normally would.
When you’re tired and stressed, your brain is more likely to enter a hypervigilant state. This is part of the fight-or-flight response, and it ramps up attention to any potential threat, including that creaky pipe or faint thudding above you. Unfortunately, your mind starts amplifying the noise.
Sleep researchers call this noise sensitivity, and it’s closely linked to anxiety, insomnia, and even childhood trauma. Some people are more vulnerable than others, but in high-density environments like a city, almost everyone becomes more sensitive over time.
Creating Your Own Sleep Sanctuary
You don’t need a hay straw in your mouth or a cowboy hat to get a good night’s sleep. That is how I imagine people in the countryside sleep. You also don’t need expensive renovations for that matter.
You DO need to reshape your bedroom into a personal sound buffer. A space that softens, absorbs, and drowns out the chaos of the outside world. With the right layout, materials, and gadgets (shout-out to Inspector Gadget), your sleep environment can become your strongest ally in the battle against urban noise.
How Soft Surfaces Affect Sound Impact
If your car or bike doesn’t have good suspension, you feel every bump on the road. It is the same for surfaces and sound.
Hard surfaces don’t provide much suspension, so they reflect a lot of sound. Soft materials absorb it. Think of your bedroom as an acoustic sponge, the more soft textures, the less echo and reverberation.
Rugs: Hardwood and tile amplify footfall and airborne noise, particularly in rooms with minimal furnishings or high ceilings. A thick rug, ideally wool or high-pile, acts as a buffer between you and the structural surfaces below. For maximum effect, place a rug under and around the bed. It will feel good underfoot, and it will also absorb mid- and high-frequency noise bouncing off the floor.
Thick black-out curtains: These are heavier and denser than typical fabric panels. Their weight helps muffle street noise like car engines, voices, and even distant sirens. Choose curtains that extend well past the window frame. Floor-to-ceiling styles with layered fabric offer the best sound-dampening and light-blocking performance. As a bonus, they improve thermal insulation and privacy, both of which contribute to a more restful sleeping environment.
Upholstered furniture: A plush headboard, a padded bench, or even an armchair can passively absorb ambient noise, particularly in the mid-frequency range where voices and city noise often sit. These pieces act as soft acoustic diffusers, breaking up sound waves before they can reflect directly toward your sleeping area.
Fabric wall art and acoustic panels: Mounting a canvas, quilt, or dedicated acoustic textile on the wall (on walls that face noise sources) can improve both aesthetics and comfort. Even decorative fabric with some thickness adds a layer of absorption that helps deaden the room’s acoustics.
These things will affect the behaviour of sound inside the room. The acoustic character, so to speak. They would soften reflections, echo, and reduce the impact of the background noise. This is not soundproofing.
Bed Placement: The Overlooked Variable
Where your bed is in the room matters more than most people realise. A few small tweaks can limit your exposure to direct noise paths.
Avoid placing your headboard against shared walls, particularly if you have noisy neighbours. Noise can excite the wall, transmitting vibration directly next to your head. And that is where your ears are. Keep this expert anatomical fact as a freebie.
Shift your bed away from windows or external walls facing roads, train lines, or busy walkways. Every metre counts. Sound pressure drops with distance, even indoors. Further from windows, you reduce direct exposure to airborne noise leaking through glass panes, frames, or vents. Away from exterior walls, you decrease the structural vibration that transmits impact noise into your sleeping area. A shift of even one to two metres can significantly lessen how sharply these sounds register during the night.
If possible, experiment with layout: sometimes placing a wardrobe or bookcase between the bed and the noise source adds a surprising buffer.
Place your bed as if your are a chess grandmaster. Although it won’t erase noise, it will reduce its intensity and directness. That can be the difference between staying asleep and waking up.
Tools That Can Help Tonight
If external changes aren’t an option (say, you’re renting or on a tight budget), personal gear becomes your best friend.
Earplugs: Foam ones are cheap and disposable, but mouldable silicone or wax plugs offer a better seal and comfort. Price-wise wise it ranges from 10 pounds up to 50 pounds.
Sleep headphones: These are flat, fabric-based headbands with embedded speakers. Perfect for playing calming sounds without digging into your ears. Could be uncomfortable for side sleepers.
White noise machines: These generate a consistent audio blanket that masks sudden disturbances like car horns or barking dogs. Some apps simulate rain, waves, or ambient noise, many free and surprisingly effective. A fan can also do the trick and add some air circulation. Podcasts are not white noise because their sound profile is more sporadic.
What matters is consistency. A predictable background sound helps your brain tune out unpredictable ones.
How to Block City Noise Without Drills and Dust
Grab a hammer and break everything. Or don’t… Not everyone can (or wants to) start a home construction project just for better sleep. Luckily, non-invasive noise management is possible:
Window plugs: These are custom-fit inserts made from dense acoustic foam, mass-loaded vinyl, or acrylic sheets, often with a backing board to create rigidity. The idea is to create a sealed air gap between the plug and the existing windowpane. Much like the dead space in double glazing. This air gap acts as a decoupling zone, dramatically reducing airborne sound transmission, especially mid- to high-frequency noise like traffic, sirens, or chatter from the street. When fitted snugly, a window plug can cut perceived noise levels by up to 10–15 dB. Enough to make a siren sound like distant rainfall. Keep in mind that this can potentially muffle a siren that was trying to warn you of a disaster. Hopefully, it never comes to that.
Draft stoppers: That little space under your door? An acoustic superhighway. Most interior doors aren’t sealed, and the air gap under the door is where a surprising amount of noise leaks through. A draft stopper, also known as a door sweep or door snake, provides a simple yet effective fix. It blocks both airflow and soundflow, particularly in the 1–4 kHz range (the frequency range of most human speech).
Bookshelves on shared walls: Fill them with dense materials. Walls between flats or bedrooms and living rooms are rarely built for acoustic isolation. They lack sufficient mass, decoupling, or insulation. But you can hack the physics. By placing large bookshelves or storage units against these walls, you effectively increase the wall’s mass and add layers of absorption. This works on the mass law principle. The heavier and more massive a barrier, the better it stops sound transmission
Sleep Is a Skill, And You Can Train It
By now, you’ve padded the room, moved the bed, and hunted down every noisy culprit in your flat. But there’s one more frontier that matters. You.
And your response to noise.
With consistent routines, you can teach your nervous system to stop reacting to every bump, siren, or shout. This is called habituation, a form of neuroplasticity where your brain learns to classify regular sounds as background, not threats.
The trick is consistency. Go to bed at the same time. Dim the lights. Use the same sound cue to tell your brain, “we’re safe now, time to rest.” Over time, your body starts to believe it. It’s basically gaslighting yourself until it works.
You don’t need total silence. You need a predictable sonic environment and a sleep routine your brain can trust. Because rest is about feeling safe enough to let go.
The way you approach noise complaints can shape how your neighbor listens, or doesn’t.
When and how you bring it up matters more than you think.
You don’t have to wing it, I’ve got the words ready for you.
Quiet solutions often come from calm collaboration, not confrontation.
You don’t want to be that person. The one with the passive-aggressive notes, the noise complaints, the simmering resentment every time a chair screeches across the floor above you.
But also, can we actually be honest? When it’s midnight, and your upstairs neighbor decides to vacuum? Or someone’s balcony karaoke echoes through your walls for the third night this week? Something in you starts to clash.
I’ve been there. And for the longest time, I told myself to “just let it go.” That I was being too sensitive. That everyone in apartments puts up with noise. But eventually, I realised something, it was that silence doesn’t just come from insulation. It comes from communication.
And like with most human things, communication about noise is often awkward. No one wants to sound petty, or worse, aggressive. But when we don’t speak up, the tension builds quietly, and ironically, it often gets louder than the noise itself.
So in this article, we’re doing the thing, figuring out how to talk to noisy neighbors. Not in theory, but in practice. Real scripts, real timing, real outcomes. Because noise doesn’t have to lead to conflict, and being a good neighbor doesn’t mean being a quiet sufferer.
Let’s talk about how to talk.
Why These Conversations Feel So Hard
If you’ve been hesitating to say something, you’re not alone. Talking to a neighbor about noise can feel weirdly high-stakes, even if it’s just a casual “Hey, could you keep it down a bit?”
Why? Because home is personal. It’s where we want to feel safe, unbothered, at peace. So when someone disrupts that, even unintentionally, it can feel invasive. And when you bring it up? It can feel like you’re accusing them of being a bad person, not just a loud one.
There’s also the fear of escalation. You don’t want to start a feud. You don’t want to feel awkward every time you pass them in the hallway. So you stay quiet. Maybe you invest in earplugs. Maybe you vent to a friend. But that lingering tension? It’s still there.
According to a 2021 survey by Rent.com, nearly 1 in 4 renters say they’ve experienced tension with neighbors over noise, and only 38% of those people ever addressed it directly. The rest either ignored it or moved out, which says a lot.
And here’s another layer: noise sensitivity is real. Research published in Environment International found that people exposed to unwanted noise frequently are more likely to report symptoms of anxiety, fatigue, and even social withdrawal. And that is especially when they feel powerless to stop it.
Has it ever felt hard to bring up the issue with your neighbours? That’s not you being bad at confrontation. That’s a very human response to a very human situation.
But the good news? There’s a way through that doesn’t involve shouting or stewing in silence. It starts with strategy, and maybe just the right opening line.
How to Start the Conversation Without Making It Awkward
The idea of knocking on someone’s door to talk about noise? Kinda terrifying, right?
But here’s the good news: most people aren’t trying to be terrible neighbors. In many cases, they genuinely don’t realise how loud they are. And when approached with clarity and kindness, they’re more likely to respond with understanding than defensiveness.
Your Timing Matters More Than You Think
Avoid mid-party confrontations or passive-aggressive glares in the elevator. Instead, pick a quiet time when tensions are low, like a weekend afternoon or early evening on a weekday.
What to Say (and What Not to)
Here’s a simple formula that has worked surprisingly well for me recently:
Lead with empathy.
Be specific about the issue.
Share how it impacts you.
Suggest a reasonable solution.
Example 1 – Late-night TV noise
“Hey! I hope this isn’t awkward, I just wanted to check in about something. I’ve noticed the TV volume at night has been pretty noticeable in my bedroom. I totally get wanting to unwind, I do the same! But I’ve been having a tough time sleeping through it. Do you think there’s a way to turn it down a bit after 10pm?”
Example 2 – Weekday Morning Piano Practice
“Hi! I’ve been meaning to talk to you about something small. I work from home during the mornings, and I’ve noticed the piano music gets a bit intense around 9AM. It’s lovely, but just a little tough for concentration. Would you be open to shifting practice time a little later or using a keyboard with headphones?”
Avoid These Traps
Don’t generalize (“You’re always loud…”).
Don’t accuse (“You don’t care about anyone else here!”).
Don’t bring up ancient noise history from six months ago.
Don’t show up already angry.
Being real here, your goal is not to win anything. It’s to find a solution together with the other person. So keep your tone friendly but direct, and focus on the outcome, not just the complaint.
Talking didn’t work, now what?
So you tried the friendly chat. You were clear, respectful, maybe even a little charming. And sadly, even after trying, nothing changed. Or worse, things got tense every morning when passing each other in the hallway on the way to work.
Now what?
Step 1 – Keep a Record
Start writing down the noise patterns. No need to go full detective mode, but note down the most important:
Dates and times of excessive noise
What kind of noise was it (e.g., loud music, construction, yelling)
How long did it last
Any communication attempts and responses
Step 2 – Talk to Other Neighbors
If you’re comfortable, ask around. You might not be the only one affected. A collective, respectful concern tends to carry more weight than a solo complaint, and it helps you feel less alone in the process.
“Hey, have you noticed the volume from apartment 3B in the evenings? Just checking if it’s been affecting you too.”
Step 3 – Contact Your Landlord
Use your notes to send a calm, factual message to whoever manages the property. Keep it short, clear, and solution-oriented.
“Hi, I live in unit 4C and have been experiencing regular noise issues from unit 4D, mostly between 23:00 to 01:00 on weekdays. I’ve spoken to them politely, but the issue hasn’t improved. I’d appreciate any guidance on how we can move forward.”
Management is legally obligated in many places to make sure that your living space isn’t unreasonably disturbed.
Step 4 – Look Into Local Noise Ordinances
Many cities have specific rules about quiet hours, decibel limits, or even noise complaint procedures. Check your local council’s website or community board. If things escalate, knowing the rules puts you on firm ground.
In some cities, repeated noise violations can result in formal warnings or fines. But more often, just the threat of policy involvement is enough to motivate change.
Step 5 – Mediation Before Legal Action
If you live in a co-op or a tightly managed rental building, there may be community mediation services. These offer neutral third-party support to resolve disputes peacefully, before things ever reach court or formal complaints.
Pro tip: Focus on the objective, which is finding something both parties can live with.
When to Let It Go (And When Not To)
Here’s the truth no one really tells you: not every noise is worth a battle.
Sometimes the best diplomacy is discernment. That doesn’t mean you have to accept disruption forever. But it does mean checking in with yourself: is this a one-off moment or a consistent pattern that’s draining your quality of life?
When to Let It Go:
The noise is rare or temporary. A once-a-year birthday party? The sound of someone moving in? Annoying, yes. But probably not worth a full report.
The neighbor is already making an effort. If they’ve adjusted and you can tell they’re trying, even if imperfectly, definitely acknowledge that.
Instead of confrontation, take out your toolkit:
Earplugs at night
White or pink noise for relaxation
When Not to Let It Go:
It’s consistent, intrusive, and affecting your health. Sleep disruption, chronic irritability, and lack of focus are real red flags.
You’ve already tried the nice route. You spoke calmly. Nothing changed.
It crosses a line (verbal aggression, late-night blasting, disrespect of boundaries). That’s a quality-of-life issue.
You deserve to live in a space where your nervous system can relax. And advocating for that doesn’t make you petty, it makes you self-respecting.
Dealing with neighbor noise isn’t easy. It takes patience, empathy, and sometimes more diplomacy than you thought you had in you. But here’s what I’ve learned: silence is about reclaiming your right to feel calm in your own space.
Talk when it’s worth it. Walk away when it’s not. And build a home that supports you in either case.
Learn how cities are waking up to the real costs of chronic noise and taking action.
From Berlin to Barcelona, community-led noise initiatives are reshaping urban life.
Thoughtful infrastructure, like sound barriers and green zones, can calm entire neighborhoods.
Small advocacy efforts can lead to big changes in how your city handles noise.
I used to think noise was just part of life, especially in my current city life. But unfortunately, the deeper I’ve gone on this sound journey, the more I’ve realized: it’s not just about me. Or my walls. Or my apartment.
Because even after adding rugs, sealing vents, and layering curtains, I kept hitting the same thought: why should peace and quiet be a DIY project?
Our homes are connected to something bigger: our neighborhoods, our buildings, our cities. And if noise is everywhere, fixing it can’t always fall on the individual.
That shift, from personal frustration to public awareness, is what got me looking into the community side of noise.
And what I found? It’s more serious than I imagined.
Noise is now considered a public health concern by the World Health Organization, with long-term exposure linked to everything from heart disease to cognitive decline. But here’s what’s even more frustrating to me. Which is that most of us aren’t even aware of how badly it’s affecting us.
And because it’s invisible, because you can’t see sound obviously, it rarely gets treated like the real issue it is.
I know that constant noise is a real stressor. One that many communities are silently absorbing every single day.
So what happens when we stop looking at quiet as a personal luxury and start seeing it as a shared right?
We usually brush off noise like it’s no big deal. A barking dog here. A delivery truck there. Someone’s car alarm doing its dramatic solo at 2 a.m.
But just because we can tune it out doesn’t mean our bodies do, as we’ve discovered throughout this recent research quest I’ve been on.
Studies show that environmental noise, especially from traffic, trains, planes, and dense urban living, is doing more than just annoying us. It’s quietly chipping away at our health, our focus, and even our community bonds.
According to a major WHO environmental noise report, noise pollution contributes to:
48,000 new cases of heart disease in Europe per year
12,000 premature deaths
Learning delays in children, especially in schools near flight paths or highways
Researchers from the European Environment Agency have confirmed that even low-level noise (like what you’d hear in a “normal” apartment near a busy street) still activates the body’s stress response.
In places with high levels of ambient noise, studies show that social trust drops. People are less likely to engage with neighbors, and are more likely to report a general sense of unease at home.
It all adds up to something that’s hard to describe, but easy to feel: our homes don’t feel like sanctuaries anymore. And when enough people in a community feel that way? That’s when the private discomfort becomes a public issue.
When Communities Fight Noise And Win
It’s easy to feel powerless when the noise feels constant. After all, you can soundproof your bedroom, wear earplugs to bed, and still be woken up by a motorcycle tearing down your street.
But some communities have taken action. And it worked.
In Berlin, a city famous for both its nightlife and its dense living, residents pushed for “quiet hours” legislation that makes it illegal to run loud appliances or play amplified music after 10 p.m. What’s interesting is that this rule was driven by neighborhood advocacy. People wanted to preserve the vibrancy of the city and protect their rest.
In New York City, the Department of Environmental Protection launched an entire initiative called “Sounds of NYC” in collaboration with NYU. They created a network of urban sound sensors and worked with engineers, scientists, and the public to actually map noise. The result was smarter zoning laws, adjusted bus routes, and noise-aware design in new buildings.
Even Paris launched a “Quiet City” campaign focused on reducing vehicle noise. The city redesigned certain roads to slow traffic, added more bike lanes, and installed noise-reducing surfaces near schools and hospitals. Within two years, peak noise levels in target areas dropped by 3 to 5 decibels. That may not sound like much, but our ears perceive that as a noticeable difference in loudness, more than enough to help people sleep or focus.
And in smaller communities too, like Ghent, Belgium, citizens got together to introduce car-free zones in residential neighborhoods, especially during school hours. Kids play outside more. Neighbors talk more. The soundscape changed and so did the mood.
These stories are proof that noise can be managed. That policies matter. That even in noisy cities, there are ways to design and govern with sound in mind.
What Local Action Can Look Like
You don’t have to be a city planner or an acoustics expert to make a difference. A lot of community noise change starts small. Maybe one street, one building, ore one petition at a time.
So what does that look like in real life?
Start with the data. One of the simplest ways to begin is to document the noise. Apps like the NIOSH Sound Level Meter let you record and log sound levels over time. This turns frustration into evidence, which is exactly what city councils, building management, or local newspapers pay attention to.
Also, you need to get familiar with your local noise ordinance. Most cities have guidelines, but enforcement often depends on complaints being filed. Knowing what’s allowed and when, can empower you to speak up without feeling petty.
Rally your neighbors. It’s much easier to be taken seriously when you’re not alone. If hallway echoes, late-night car alarms, or loud air conditioning systems are bothering you, chances are others feel the same. A simple group email or noticeboard message can spark a collective response.
You can reach out to your local officials. Whether it’s your district councilor, a tenant’s union, or the neighborhood association, these groups can elevate your concerns, especially if you come with data and solutions.
Want something even simpler? Suggest soft-surface upgrades in shared spaces. Lobbies with tile flooring? Suggest adding large rugs. Empty stairwells that echo? Wall-mounted panels can reduce reverberation for everyone.
And yes, even a well-worded letter or email to a landlord about shared space noise can have a ripple effect, especially if you can frame it not just as a complaint, but as an idea for improving tenant well-being.
And here’s the secret: many people don’t realise how loud things really are until someone points it out. A single suggestion, backed with a little science or a shared story, can start to shift the tone. (literally)
Quiet Is a Shared Right
Over the past few weeks, I’ve realized that quiet isn’t just something I crave after a long day; it’s something I deserve. And so do you. So does your neighbor. So does the kid trying to finish their homework two floors down, or the night-shift nurse trying to get some sleep at noon.
We often think of activism as loud. But in this case, silence is the revolution.
So if you’ve been on your own journey toward a quieter life: layering rugs, shifting furniture, sealing gaps, trying bedtime stories and pink noise, maybe now’s the time to look outside your four walls.
Who else is living through the same soundtrack? What small shift could help more than just you?
It could be something as small as a conversation, or as practical as suggesting a rug for the stairwell. It could be starting a thread in your building group chat or asking your councilor about local transport noise plans.
Whatever it is, it counts. Because when enough of us say, “This matters,” it does. And slowly, more communities might start building with our ears in mind, not just our eyes.
Noise drains your energy, even when you don’t notice it.
Small renter-friendly changes really work. No drilling or construction required.
Understanding sound changes everything. Learning the difference between soundproofing and acoustic treatment helps you manage the sound inside your space.
Acoustic panels are worth exploring. Studies show they cut down echo, improve clarity, and reduce listening fatigue.
There’s this strange moment that happens when your space finally hushes.
No footsteps above you. No hallway debates outside your door. No distant blender whirring like a chainsaw in a smoothie shop. Just stillness.
And suddenly, your shoulders drop in a way you didn’t know they could. Your jaw unclenches, and your body almost forgets how to be noisy.
That’s what happened to me not long ago. After weeks of tweaking and testing the renter-friendly tips I shared last time. The rug layering, gap sealing, bedtime sound rituals, I had one of those rare, quiet nights. And I mean really quiet.
It wasn’t until then that I realised just how loud things had been before. Not just audibly loud, but mentally loud. That subtle tension that never fully lets up because your brain is always bracing for the next interruption. And when it finally fades? You feel it in your bones.
There’s actually a name for this. Environmental psychologists call it “habituation fatigue.” It’s the idea that when your brain constantly adjusts to background stressors, like low-level noise, it doesn’t just tune them out. It spends energy managing them, all day long. And that takes a toll.
I used to think I was just being “too sensitive.” But now, with a little science and a lot of trial and error behind me, I get it: our nervous systems weren’t built for constant urban buzz. And when that buzz drops away? That’s when the healing starts.
What Actually Worked (and what didn’t)
Turns out, some of the soundproofing hacks I tried weren’t just Pinterest-friendly. They were legit life-changers. And some others? Let’s just say they looked better in theory.
This time around, I wanted to be more methodical. Not just “throw a rug here, hang a curtain there,” but actually observe and see what made the room feel quieter, and not just sound quieter.
The Unexpected Power of Small Fixes
One of the simplest changes that had a surprisingly outsized impact? Sealing the tiny air vent gaps in the kitchen. I used removable putty and magnetic covers. Not exactly glamorous. But I noticed that every time someone upstairs used their speakerphone, it no longer echoed into my hallway like a public announcement.
According to a 2022 study in Building Acoustics, even narrow ductwork and vents can amplify airborne sound by over 10 dB, basically doubling perceived volume.
I also experimented with moving the furniture, which, I know, sounds like the IKEA version of feng shui. But shifting my couch to face away from the thinnest wall (and adding a small padded bench between) made my evening routine feel more contained.
There’s growing research on the psychological effects of “acoustic orientation.” This is the way furniture positioning influences how we perceive space and sound. It’s not about muting noise entirely, but about creating a directional buffer.
On the flip side? I tried layering fabric wall hangings in my bedroom. They looked cozy, sure, but didn’t do much beyond aesthetics. I think the material was too thin to absorb anything but compliments from guests. (lesson learned: more plush, less polyester)
The Rituals That Changed My Evenings
I’ve now made it a habit to prep my nervous system for quiet, rather than just hoping it happens.
Instead of only masking noise, I’ve started training my brain to shift gears more gently at night. That looks like pink noise on a 45-minute timer, dim lighting, and keeping my phone out of arm’s reach.
Dr. Shelby Harris, a behavioral sleep medicine specialist, says these kinds of pre-sleep rituals help signal the hypothalamus, the part of the brain that regulates our circadian rhythm.
What’s wild is that I didn’t need complete silence to feel rested, just predictability. The ambient blanket of consistent sound helped drown out sharp interruptions that used to jolt me back into alertness. I’d fall asleep faster and stay asleep longer. Cool, right?
From Sound Hacks to Sound Strategy
There’s something that happens when you stop just googling “how to make your apartment quieter” and start digging into how sound actually behaves.
I didn’t expect to care this much about things like reverberation time or sound wave reflection, but here I am, casually dropping terms like I’m hosting a low-budget science documentary.
But seriously, after trying the basics, I started asking deeper questions. Not just how to soften noise, but why some rooms sound sharper than others. Why certain noises seemed to follow me around, and others vanished with just a rug and a bookshelf.
Spoiler: it’s not just volume. It’s how sound travels.
Soundproofing vs. Acoustic Treatment
Let’s clear this up first. I used to think they were the same thing. They’re not.
Soundproofing is about keeping sound in or out. Think thick walls, sealed doors, mass-loaded barriers.
Acoustic treatment, though? That’s about improving the quality of sound inside a space, reducing echo, harshness, and that weird tinny ring some rooms have.
According to the Institute of Noise Control Engineering, untreated drywall rooms can have reverberation times exceeding 0.6–0.8 seconds, meaning each sound bounces around just long enough to blur clarity and increase fatigue. Acoustic treatment aims to bring that down below 0.3 seconds for comfort.
Once I understood this, it all clicked. I didn’t need to block everything out, I just needed to reshape the sound that was already inside my space.
That’s when I started reading about how sound reflects off different surfaces. Smooth, hard ones like tile, glass, and bare walls bounce sound around like it’s playing pinball. Softer, textured materials, think fabric, foam, dense books, absorb or diffuse those waves, breaking up the chaos.
Suddenly, every room in my apartment looked different to me. My bathroom? A tiny echo chamber. My hallway? A noise funnel. My living room? A blank acoustic canvas.
Which brings us to the next chapter…
Enter: Acoustic Panels
So here’s what I never thought I’d say as a regular apartment renter: I am genuinely excited about acoustic panels.
Yep. Panels. For sound. On my walls.
Honestly, it started as one of those Pinterest rabbit holes. I saw some that looked more like modern art than sound tech, and I thought, “Wait, are these just pretty, or do they actually do something?”
Turns out, they very much do something.
Acoustic panels are designed to absorb mid- to high-frequency sound waves, basically the chatter, clatter, and general indoor chaos that most apartments struggle with. They’re made of porous materials like dense foam, recycled cotton, or mineral wool that trap sound energy and convert it into heat (don’t worry, not in a noticeable way).
But here’s where it gets cool: It’s about tuning the space. Like adjusting the acoustics of your living room, the same way you’d EQ your headphones. The sound gets softer, rounder, and less sharp.
In home studies from the University of Salford’s Acoustic Research Centre, researchers found that even lightweight fabric-wrapped panels could reduce echo by up to 60% in domestic rooms with hard surfaces. Participants reported feeling “calmer” and more “mentally clear” in treated rooms, without even realizing why.
The panels also help in sneaky, unexpected ways. For instance:
They improve speech clarity, great if you work from home or take calls in echoey spaces.
They reduce listening fatigue, which is a real thing. The brain works harder to process sound in acoustically messy environments.
They lower perceived loudness, even if decibel levels technically stay the same, the brain experiences less sonic clutter.
What really sold me? They’re renter-safe now. A lot of panels are designed with adhesives or Velcro strips that come off clean. And many brands offer customizable shapes, textures, and colors too.
So yes, after weeks of trial runs and low-commitment hacks, I’ve decided to invest in a few acoustic panels. Not to overhaul the entire apartment. Just to start. The same way I learned to layer my lighting or organize my bookshelves for comfort, I want to start shaping my soundscape, too.
I’ll be diving deeper into that in the coming weeks on how to choose the right ones, where to place them, and what kind of difference they actually make in a renter’s space.
If the first weeks of this journey were about reacting to noise, plugging ears, moving rugs, and rearranging furniture. But this new phase feels different. I’m not just dodging chaos anymore. I’m building calm.
And I didn’t realize how powerful that shift could be.
Sound is the invisible architecture of our homes. We talk so much about light, layout, plants, energy, but the sound of a space? It holds real weight. It affects how we focus, how we rest, even how we relate to people we share the space with.
There’s a concept in acoustic psychology called perceived control. It is about how much control we believe we have over the noise in our environment. Studies show that even when people hear the same level of noise, those who feel more in control of it report significantly lower stress levels.
Through trial and error, research and rituals, I’ve carved out a home that listens back. I’ve learned to notice the sonic texture of my rooms. To treat sound not as something to fight, but something to design with.
And now I trust my space. And that has made all the difference.
Silence supports brain development and neuroplasticity.
Periods of silence trigger a measurable physiological reset.
Silence builds resilience to stress and fatigue.
Silence improves emotional regulation, better sleep quality, and psychological clarity.
Quiet settings are essential for productivity and creative insight
I’m searching for a musician who is producing silence. Imagine if you can play some silence from a sound system, or a Bluetooth speaker, at the end of the day, or in the morning. Wouldn’t that be nice?
But how low do you have to go so it can be considered silence? In this game of sonic limbo, you don’t need to reach 0 dB to experience true quiet. As long as you perceive the environment as silent, it’s enough. A quiet bedroom usually measures around 30 dB. What about the most silent place on Earth – the infamous Anechoic chamber? It reaches -9 dB! But that is an artificial environment.
Silence is something we need, and if that is not intuitively obvious to you, first, I envy you, and second, you probably don’t work or live in a busy environment.
Why Silence Deserves Scientific Attention
Feeling stuck on how to begin this section while the garbage truck roars down the street is a direct example of how noise influences us. Silence is becoming more and more rare, as much as natural gold in nature. I would say it’s becoming a public health issue, but that would be too optimistic. It is not becoming. It has been for years.
In 2011, the World Health Organisation estimated that people in Western Europe lose 1 million healthy life years every year. That means that the cumulative time of being sick because of noise, split between the millions, and millions of people in that region, adds up to 1 million years. That estimation was made in 2011 based on limited data. And the world became noisier since then.
However grim this statistic may seem, at least the negative effects of noise are understood, and we naturally associate them with danger. Silence is paid much less attention, and its beneficial effects need to be better known.
Silence allows our active biological and psychological restorative mechanisms to activate. This has a direct correlation with:
Improved brain function
Emotional regulation
Stress reduction
Mental clarity
The Neurological Impact of Silence
Avoiding noise is one of the surest ways to reduce stress. There is more to silence than that, though. It actively supports brain health at a cellular and cognitive level.
Brain Growth and Repair
Silence can increase your appetite for cheese and help you grow a tail. Jokes aside, a study published in “Brain Structure and Function” by Imke Kirste in 2013 discovered how different auditory environments affect the formation of new neurons in mice.
The study had several control groups of mice exposed to two hours daily of:
Silence – in a soundproofed chamber.
White noise – stimuli with no emotional content for the mice.
Mouse pup calls – the sounds young mice make. Emotionally relevant to the subjects.
Classical music – a structured, non-threatening sound.
The rest of the time, they were kept in natural environments. All of the test groups exhibited some level of cell proliferation, but silence resulted in the most significant neurogenesis in the hippocampus, the part of the brain responsible for memory, learning, and emotional regulation. The ones exposed to silence were the only group that retained the new cell formations and managed to turn them into mature neurons.
We saw that silence is really helping the new generated cells to differentiate into neurons and integrate into the system.
– Imke Kirste, neuroscientist.
Humans, even though we like ourselves some camembert or gouda, are not mice. The exact way silence affects the hippocampus is still being studied, but the research suggests that silence promotes brain plasticity. Meaning the formation or regeneration of neurons, typically happening during active learning or physical exercise.
So spending time in silence can have the same effect on our brains as lifting weights or learning a new skill. It could be literally making you smarter. Huh… no wonder the archetype of the old wise monk is usually on top of a mountain.
Default Mode Network Activation
If your video game is lagging or the video is not loading, you may have problems with the network connection. But you’d better pray you don’t have problems with the Default Mode Network (DMN). When things are not happening and the brain is not stimulated much, it doesn’t shut down. Instead, it goes into this somewhat standby mode. This complex system of interacting brain regions is most active during wakeful rest. It is critical for:
Self-reflection and introspection
Memory consolidation
Emotional regulation
Creative insight
For the brain, the lack of stimuli means less information coming in through the senses. Less information = silence. In his foundational study, Marcus E. Raichle first identified the DMN by noting increased activity during “rest” periods in fMRI experiments.
The implication is that silence fuels the very processes that make us self-aware, emotionally balanced, and imaginative.
Cognitive Load Relief
The brain does things regardless of our desires or opinions. Like processing background information. We can choose to focus, but we still hear every sound and noise around us. It’s just unconscious. This constant workload, a.k.a. cognitive load, takes energy. The more energy we spend, the more fatigue builds up.
Silence provides a pause button. Without the need to filter or interpret external noise, brain regions involved in auditory processing can begin to rest.
Silence and Stress: A Physiological Reset
Nervous system? Ha… All my systems are nervous. Especially when exposed to noise. The autonomic Nervous System (ANS) that governs stress, recovery, and baseline organ function can respond to sound and noise, either bypassing the ears if the sound enters the body as a vibration alone, through the brain stem if there is a startling, sudden sound, or cumulatively as a response to daily exposure to noise.
We don’t even need to hear or pay attention to noise for it to affect us. And when there is a constant level of noise, be it from city traffic, construction, people, dogs, cats, lizards – silence gives a physiological window for rest and healing. Play loud music through a speaker in a hospital, and you will be quickly escorted out.
Activating the Parasympathetic Nervous System
Silence is a great sympathiser for the parasympathetic branch of the ANS, or more famously called the rest-and-digest system. Silence allows this system to activate, which in turn slows down the heart rate, dilates blood vessels, and reduces cortisol levels. All are essential for stress recovery.
A landmark study by Luciano Bernardi (2006) published in “Heart” explored the relationship between sound and silence. Human subjects were exposed to classical music tracks of varying tempo, mixed with silent pauses.
Notably, it was the silent intervals, not the slow music, that produced the most pronounced reductions in heart rate and respiratory rate: clear evidence that silence has a stronger calming effect than even soothing music. Not sure what the cheese situation was.
The blank pauses induced greater relaxation than the music itself. – Luciano Bernardi, MD
Heart Rate Variability: A Window Into Recovery
Heart Rate Variability (HRV) is a marker that measures the beat-to-beat variation in heart rhythm. It can tell us how flexible is the nervous system is and how well it resists stress. Higher HRV reflects a healthy ability to adapt to environmental demands.
Multiple studies, including those of Bernardi (2006) and Zhou(2019), demonstrate that quiet environments measurably increase HRV.
Noise, Inflammation, and the Immune System
We should give noise more credit. It’s actually a pretty good villain. It not only causes stress and fatigue, but also chronic exposure to it has been linked to low-grade inflammation. It contributes to cardiovascular disease, metabolic disorders, and impaired immune response. Such a generous contributor.
The hero of our story, silence, helps restore the balance. As the parasympathetic system takes over, cortisol and adrenaline levels decline, paving the way for anti-inflammatory processes to resume. It’s not dramatic, but it is measurable and cumulative.
Emotional and Psychological Wellbeing
We need a moment for ourselves to process our emotions and figure out what we want to do and how we feel about it. And noise can take that away from us. Silence benefits our mental health so much that even the WHO has estimated that if we are exposed daily to an average of 45 dB, we have a higher risk for depression, anxiety, and cognitive decline. No wonder we feel relief when we go to the mountains, see, or in general leave the city.
Silence creates conditions for emotional regulation and cognitive clarity. Neuroimaging studies show that during quiet states, there is increased activity in the brain regions tied to empathy, introspection, and executive function.
Even sleep quality is significantly compromised by low-level background noise. Even low dB noise can cause micro-arousals, reducing sleep efficiency, REM duration, and the body’s ability to repair overnight. Quiet bedrooms promote deeper, uninterrupted, and more restorative sleep, which in turn influences emotional stability and resilience.
Silence and Productivity: The Amplifier
Auditory stillness directly correlates with enhanced productivity and mental efficiency.
A study by Banbury & Berry (1998) in “Applied Cognitive Psychology” demonstrated that irrelevant background speech, like the one in an office, significantly disrupted performance on memory and attention-based tasks. And that was 27 years ago.
The working memory system is highly susceptible to auditory interference, particularly in knowledge-based roles.
Silence is equally critical for creative work. A different study by Jung-Beeman (2004), published in “PLoS Biology”, found that creative insight is supported by a relaxed state. Quiet conditions allow the brain to engage in spontaneous associative thinking.
Open-plan offices sound great on paper and sure are nice when the boss wants to show new clients around, but they rarely come without downsides. Especially the ones without dedicated quiet rooms for brainstorming and meetings.
They are repeatedly associated with decreased productivity, increased error rates, and higher employee burnout.
Silence is medicine and allows us to be better versions of ourselves, both psychologically and physically. I’m trying to spend more time in silence, even though it may seem boring. Like a form of meditation.
Sometimes I fall asleep to a podcast, but maybe I have to set a sleep timer on my phone to stop the recording at an hour or so. There are small things we can do to bring more silence into our lives. And remember – small things often accumulate and become larger.
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So here’s the deal: I love my apartment. It has decent light, okay-ish neighbors, and I’ve finally figured out where to put the sofa so it doesn’t block the Wi-Fi. But as I shared before, there’s one thing I cannot get used to, and that is the noise.
Some mornings, it could be heavy footsteps above my head that sound like a toddler doing CrossFit. Other times, it’s “important” hallway conversations that might as well be happening in my kitchen. And please don’t get me started on the plumbing that whines like it has unresolved emotional trauma.
The main problem is that I am renting. I can’t exactly knock down walls or install fancy systems that isolate the noise. But I also can’t keep pretending this daily noise is just part of the city life. I need some quiet time, or at least, less chaos.
So I’ve gone on a little mission. Not a full-blown renovation, but a realistic, budget-friendly hunt for soundproofing hacks that won’t get me in trouble with my lovely landlord (or my bank account).
Some of these I’ve tried. Some are new and genuinely interesting to me. But all of them are renter-safe, reversible, and designed to help your home feel a little more like the quiet haven it should be.
Let’s dive in.
Why It’s So Noisy in Here
Has it happened to you before that you hear your upstairs neighbor sneeze… and you instinctively say “Bless you” out loud? Yes? Same.
Apartments, especially rentals nowadays, are just not built with soundproofing in mind. Engineers or landlords go for what’s fast, cheap, and almost functional. And while that may work for plumbing and square footage, it’s often terrible for peace and quiet of the people renting.
Here’s why your place could be intensifying noise instead of softening it, and what your body’s quietly going through because of it.
Thin Walls, Loud Lives
As we have figured out already, most rental apartments are made with lightweight materials like drywall and basic framing, which do a pretty terrible job at blocking sound. Add in hard floors, open layouts, and vents that double as sound tunnels.
And let’s be honest, most of us aren’t exactly living in soundproof bubbles. We’ve got neighbors, traffic, barking dogs, and the occasional upstairs bowling league (or at least, that’s what it sounds like). It’s not you. It’s the walls.
Scientifically, this comes down to how sound travels through air and solid structures. Airborne noise (like voices or music) moves in waves that bounce off hard surfaces. Without soft or dense materials to absorb or deflect those waves, the energy passes right through drywall and into your space.
On the other hand, low-frequency sounds like bass or footsteps are even harder to block, because they travel through solid materials like floors and framing (known as structure-borne noise).
According to the CDC’s environmental noise guidelines, common indoor sounds in multifamily housing can reach 50-60 dB during daytime, which is already well above the WHO’s recommended nighttime indoor maximum of 30 dB for healthy sleep.
Your Brain on Noise
Here’s something I didn’t fully realise until I started digging: your brain doesn’t just hear noise, it reacts to it, whether you want it to or not.
According to a 2021 paper in Frontiers in Psychology, exposure to unpredictable noise, especially low-frequency sounds commonly transmitted through walls and floors, can negatively affect working memory and reduce task performance by up to 25%.
That’s because low-frequency noise, like deep rumbles or thumps, is harder for the ear to block out and travels more easily through building materials. Your brain ends up devoting more energy to filtering irrelevant stimuli than focusing on what matters.
In studies by Germany’s Federal Environment Agency, researchers also found that indoor environmental noise, even below 60 dB, contributes to higher levels of norepinephrine, the hormone linked to our stress response. This confirms that sound pressure levels below the threshold of pain can still be biologically stressful.
So if you’ve been feeling more tense or tired, it might not be your schedule. It might be your walls, as we’ve figured out together.
7 Hacks That Muffle Noise Without Breaking Your Lease
Alright, now let’s dig into the fun stuff. These tips are all low-commitment, budget-friendly, and landlord-safe. And most importantly, there are no drills involved and no construction.
Just a handful of small changes that can help dial down the noise and give your nervous system some well-earned rest.
1. Softening the Stomp
If your apartment has hard floors, then rugs are your first line of defence against noise. Not just the noise you make, but also the kind coming from your neighbors below.
The trick? Use a thick rug with a dense rug pad underneath. That combination of materials helps absorb impact noise and reduces the bounce of sound in echoey rooms. Even better if you layer rugs in key areas, such as under your bed, couch, or hallway.
Research from the Building Services Research and Information Association (BSRIA) shows that carpets and rugs can reduce airborne noise levels by up to 25-34 dB, depending on pile thickness and density. This might not sound like much, but it’s enough to shift your space from echo-chamber to cozy.
Rug pads don’t need to be fancy. A decent foam or felt one will do the job. Just make sure it covers most of the rug’s surface area so it doesn’t slide around.
2. Sealing the Gaps
Doors and windows are like the weak spots in your apartment’s armour against noise. Even a small gap under your door, that’s not too noticeable, can let in hallway conversations like it’s on speaker.
Start with a door sweep. Even a simple strip that blocks the space between your door and the floor. Then, check around window frames. If you feel air coming through, sound is probably sneaking in through there as well. Weather stripping or adhesive foam tape can seal those gaps without any damage to the structure.
Bonus: You’ll also save a bit on heating and cooling. Win-win, right!
3. Curtains
You know how heavy curtains block out light? Well, they can help with sound, too.
Blackout or thermal-insulated curtains are usually made with thick, layered fabric that absorbs sound waves, especially high-frequency ones like traffic or distant conversations. They won’t make your room silent, but they’ll dull the sharp edges.
Got a wall that faces a noisy street? Try hanging curtains across the entire wall, not just the window.
4. Bookshelves
Surprise: your IKEA shelf can double as a sound barrier! Placing a fully loaded bookshelf against a shared wall adds mass. That is something sound doesn’t travel through easily. Books, especially hardcovers, absorb sound waves.
Studies from the Journal of the Acoustical Society of America show that “mass loading”, as in adding dense materials to lightweight walls, can reduce sound transmission by 10 to 20 dB, depending on how well the wall is covered. A tightly packed shelf acts almost like an improvised barrier wall, especially for mid-frequency noise like music or TV.
Just make sure the shelf fits snugly against the wall and is filled in. If books aren’t your thing, you can mix in boxes, baskets, or folded blankets to fill out the space and get a similar effect.
5. Double Duty Furniture
If you’ve got a thin wall separating you from a noisy neighbour, or even worse, their TV, then use your largest, heaviest furniture to your advantage.
Couches, wardrobes, dressers, and even headboards can absorb a surprising amount of noise. Just scoot them up against the loudest walls. If you can shift your bed away from the noisiest wall and replace it with a wardrobe or bookshelf, even better.
Pro tip: A thick headboard does more than look fancy. It muffles sounds that would otherwise bounce around your bedroom.
6. Acoustic Panels
Okay, so this one’s new to me, but really intriguing.
I have been looking into removable acoustic panels designed specifically for renters. They’re lightweight, stick on with adhesive strips or velcro, and you can find ones that look more like art than audio gear.
Why are they effective? Here’s what I found at the start of my research: Acoustic panels reduce reverberation time, which is the length of time a sound lingers in a room. A well-treated room can cut this by over 60%, making it easier to concentrate, sleep, or take a Teams call without background chaos. Panels made from dense foam or mineral wool can absorb up to 90% of high-frequency sound waves, depending on placement and thickness, according to industry lab tests.
I haven’t tried them yet, but I’ve started bookmarking options. They seem especially useful for rooms with lots of echo, or if you’re working from home and want to soften sound during video calls. Definitely one I’ll be researching more soon.
7. White Noise
Sometimes the best defense is… more sound. But the right kind.
White noise machines, apps, or playlists create a consistent audio blanket that masks sudden noises. I mentioned it briefly in the previous blog post, how white, pink, and other colorful noise can actually help with reducing stress.
Using white or pink noise while sleeping can shorten the time it takes to fall asleep by up to 38%, and help people stay in deeper stages of sleep longer.
The even, steady nature of the sound helps your brain block out irregular external noise spikes, like your neighbour’s late-night kitchen karaoke.
Will These Fix Everything?
Let’s be honest, no rug or curtain is going to make your apartment sound like a recording studio. Your neighbor will still exist. Their toddler will still run. Someone, somewhere, will drop a pan at midnight.
But here’s the thing, you’re not trying to eliminate all sound. You’re trying to soften the sharp edges. To muffle the chaos just enough so your brain and body can breathe a little easier.
And these renter-friendly hacks? They do exactly that. You might still hear the noise, but you’ll feel it less.
Even one or two small changes can create a noticeable impact. You fall asleep faster, and you don’t flinch every time someone walks by your door.
It’s not silence. But it’s peace. And that’s enough.
Peace on a Budget Is Still Peace
You don’t need a renovation budget or a soundproof bunker to make your apartment feel calmer. You just need a few smart tweaks. A little softness. Some intention.
These aren’t big, showy fixes, but they add up. A thick rug here. A well-placed shelf there. Maybe some bedtime stories and pink noise to help your brain slow down.
Even if you’re just renting, even if the walls are thin, you still deserve a sense of quiet. And it turns out, you can get closer to it than you think.
Even low-level background noise can disrupt concentration and memory over time.
Emotional signs of noise overload include irritability, fatigue, lack of focus, and avoidance behaviours.
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Mental strategies such as mindfulness, breathing exercises, and cognitive reframing help reduce emotional reactivity.
Digital overstimulation contributes to sensory overload—setting boundaries can restore calm.
Why Urban Noise is More Than Just Annoying
It lurks. And just as I wake up, it attacks. Today, it was the barking of two dogs who were fighting for supremacy. They are both locked in yards across the street from one another. Yesterday, it was a car honk that low-key sounded like a slur. What would it be tomorrow? The noise. Whatever it is, I’ll hear it.
The relentless soundtrack of urban living is getting louder. Ask the World Health Organization, and they will tell you that over 100 million people in Europe suffer harmful levels of environmental noise. That is like the population of Germany AND the Netherlands combined. Add to that 30 million more from the American CDC statistics, and imagine the tension, poor sleep, reduced focus, and rising stress that people live with.
I am talking about chronic noise exposure, particularly in cities. For me, it started just as a nuisance. Something I can brush off and ignore. Yeah… It’s not going my way. I’m looking for ways to cope. I also figured that my troubles with noise are not unique or special. The least I could do is share what I know about managing the emotional effects of noise, both by physical and mental means.
How Does Sound Affect the Brain? Poorly…
Can’t we just pick berries, sit around campfires, and grunt for communication, like the good old days? No, because who else will hear the delights of urban environments – jackhammers, sirens, construction, traffic, and air-conditioning hums?
Interestingly enough, when we are exposed to constant noise, it is not just the brain that is affected. The body reacts to it as well. Sometimes I feel like all tense, like I have stepped into a boss arena. But there is no health bar at the bottom. All while I fold clothes or do some other household chore. This is the physical reaction I’m talking about. What I’m getting is anxiety. All because of the “slight nuisance” that is everyday noise.
Many of us, I’m sure, are needlessly tense and on alert with no real danger to speak of. Noise builds up, and eventually it triggers our fight-or-flight response. During which we release cortisol, the hormone of stress. With that comes higher blood pressure, trouble sleeping, ultimately leading to insomnia, fatigue, and cognitive overload. Nasty stuff.
Even relatively low levels of chronic background noise, under 50 dB, can interrupt deep sleep or reduce focus over long periods. The effect is cumulative, as all bad things are.
It’s difficult to assess how sensitive my nervous system is. I only have my own perspective. But I do get anxiety and mental fog in mundane situations. At least I’m not a child. Constant noise can affect the development of their brains, slowing down the learning process. And with noise, concentration is out the window.
This constant stress we are all feeling to some extent increases the risk of burnout. Today I don’t like my colleagues, tomorrow – my friends, or my hobbies seem dull, or I’m angry at my spouse for something.
No. This might be the front-end story my mind presents me with, but in truth, at the back-end, it’s the effects of an ongoing burnout.
Can Noise Pollution Cause Emotional Fallout
Can a fish swim? I’ve seen some lazy carp, but usually yes. When we think of the dangers of noise, we often imagine it as standing in front of a booming speaker or using heavy machinery with no ear gear. The volume, the power. Thinking about noise soon brings up the image of your eardrums popping.
But noise is a creeper. It doesn’t need to be loud. It can make even a rational person irritable and exhausted with no apparent reason.
The lack of concentration is another way I notice that there has been too much noise around me. When folding a t-shirt feels like folding a fitted sheet – that’s when I know I have fatigue.
Yesterday I insulted a spoon, because it splashed water when I was washing it. A spoon!? But stress can make a person emotionally reactive enough to lose their balance. This heightened impatience is another giveaway that the nervous system is running on fumes.
Do you know what avoidance behaviours are? It’s when you don’t want to engage with something because of the discomfort it would bring. Like not inviting people over or skipping gatherings because you are on edge and can’t stand the idea of more exhaustion.
What Are Some Emotional Coping Strategies That Actually Work
Once you’ve allowed yourself to experience your emotions, the next step is to label your emoions and identify how you are feeling. This can make your emotions seem more managable.
– Matthew T. Tull; Psychologist
How to Reclaim Control of Your Environment
A solution to the ongoing everyday noise that I explored is to create quiet zones in my home. I have designed my place with the idea to get back the control I need to feel safe and relaxed.
For my setup, I used an old thick rug that I had lying around (pun intended), curtains, and I already had bookshelves, but I bought a couple of soft pillows to passively absorb sound.
A different approach is to use noise masking. Everything that can produce a pleasant white noise would do. That could be white noise machines, fans, or 10-hour-long videos of giraffes eating the top of the crown leaves. Anything that can drown out the sporadic city sounds.
And if you are thinking, “how can adding more noise resolve a noise issue?”, the trick is that pleasant white noise gives the brain something predictable to hold on to, and better ignore the sharp and surprising urban noise.
One can always swallow the small discomfort of having earplugs and combat the noise issue that way. Normal in-ear Bluetooth headphones might work, but there are also specially engineered earplugs that keep the clarity of sound while also lowering the perceived dB significantly. People usually buy such gear for loud environments like a concert or a party.
Is Mental Gymnastics a Reasonable Approach to Noise
Once upon a time, on a very hot summer morning, I was woken up by birds chirping in front of my open window. The noise coming from them disturbed my sleep. Aren’t bird songs supposed to foster relaxation and comfort? I took a couple of deep breaths and tried to imagine that I was relaxing in a forest after a long hike or something like that. From being irritated at birds, to humbly enjoying their melodies – it’s all a matter of perspective shift.
Did I fall back asleep? No. But it got me thinking about how if I change my reaction to a situation, the situation changes.
Not to sound like a Buddhist monk, but mindfulness techniques do work. I try to observe without immediate reaction, so I don’t react or fight every sound I hear. Rather than that, just notice it without labeling it as bad.
There is an app for everything, and that includes guided meditations and mindfulness. They can help you have better control of your emotions and be more present, so mental stress does not build up that fast.
The deep breaths I took were not just for dramatic effect on that hot summer morning. Breathing exercises are another powerful tool to help you calm down and reset. Even a couple of slow, deep breaths can stimulate the parasympathetic nervous system. This little buddy of ours is responsible for the opposite of the fight-or-flight response – the much chiller cousin, rest-and-digest. Yes, really. This system allows us to shift from tension to restoration.
The mind is like water. When it’s turbulent, it’s difficult to see. When it’s calm, everything becomes clear.
– Alan Watts; British philosopher
And the trick I used to imagine myself in a forest after a hike? Kids call it imagination, but scientists have given it the name of cognitive reframing. It’s a technique that allows us to reinterpret a seemingly “threatening” noise as simply a “bothersome” one. This new perspective allows the brain to remain calm and emotionally balanced.
How to Set Up Daily Boundaries For Digital Hygiene
Noise is not the only villain that can take away your peace and quiet. Researching topics, planning meetings with friends, following meme accounts on social media… I have been responsible for overstimulating myself so many times. I know what would happen, and I still do it. Well, less and less I want to believe (shout-out to Fox Mulder), but digital clutter can disturb our emotional resilience.
Here is what I do. I try to avoid overstimulation by limiting screen time, especially before bed. Notifications and news are muted at around 8 pm. But I struggle to create screen breaks during the day because my work and some of my hobbies are on the screen.
Generally, introducing a noise-free period in your daily routine can lower stress levels. For some, it’s the slow, silent mornings, or quiet hours before sleep, or even soundless lunch breaks with no devices. If the food on your plate has gone cold because you can’t find the right video to eat it to, then we both are as guilty as charged.
These quiet intervals allow the nervous system to down-regulate, supporting recovery from constant exposure. Stress is like a drug, and sometimes we don’t know that we are addicted to it. Going for a walk with earbuds or falling asleep to a podcast can seem like relaxing things to do, but they add more wood to the overstimulation pyre.
Mindfulness achieved. Now I want something physical
I can only ignore or limit the attention I give to noise, stress, and anxiety so much. Sounds familiar? Mental techniques and tools can be greatly empowered when combined with physical changes to your environment.
Noise can get to us in a huge variety of ways. It can leak just like water from cracks on the wall, holes, or windows that don’t close tightly. It can be amplified by flat, hard surfaces. Noise can make other noise louder because of the way the sound waves’ amplitudes combine.
There are physical ways to combat noise without having to do full renovations.
How to Rearrange Your Living Space
Interiors can have noise-dampening qualities; we just need to make the right choices. Sound-absorbing curtains are a start. They are usually best buddies with sealed windows. Together, they can stop outside noise like traffic, construction, and street sounds.
Bookshelves, like the one I have, make excellent sound barriers. They scatter the sound waves before they reach you. A bit awkward to say, but they do need to be filled with books. For even more impact, put additional insulation or padding materials at the back of the shelf.
Having more soft furniture in a room, especially if placed next to a noisy wall, would help with sound absorption. Sofas, beds, headboards, bean bags, a big stuffed polar bear toy – whatever fits your style.
Our homes should be temples of relaxation and recovery. My home, my castle, and all that. I, for one, don’t live in a mansion, but if your place allows it, keep your distance from the source of the noise. That could mean to avoid a shared wall, or the face of the building that is closest to a busy street.
Getting into home acoustics, one panel at a time
The last trick up my sleeve would be to recommend full-scale renovations. That is the most effective and most expensive way to go. But don’t go rushing to feel powerless. There are a lot of accessible options for acoustic treatment for a home.
Start by sealing gaps. Not just the one in your resume, but small openings around windows, doors, and skirting boards. They are common culprits for letting sound in. Use weatherstripping, acoustic sealant, or door sweeps to close these off. Even a simple draft blocker at the bottom of the door can make a difference in blocking hallway noise or street-level sounds.
The next step is to consider placing acoustic panels on key surfaces that reflect the most sound. Usually, that would be walls right in front of the source of the noise, as they are the first to get hit by the sound wave.
On the market, multiple companies sell acoustic panels like GIK Acoustics and their SpotPanel 50 mm or the WAVO panels of DECIBEL. There are many more. These panels combine wood, fabric, PET felt and different geometries to influence how sound behaves in a room. More often than not, modern panels are created to be aesthetically pleasing and highly adaptable to the style of different interiors.
Panels can be glued or mounted to the walls pretty easily, and most sellers offer free-standing panels or screens that can be positioned and moved freely in an apartment. This is useful for people who rent and can’t (or won’t, let’s be real) do renovations.
Do you know what TL;DR stands for? Too Loud; Didn’t Relax. Or something like that… the explanation was too long and I didn’t have the time to read it. We, the city people, deserve to have the quiet to recuperate and unwind. And noise is not going away, unless we do something about it. The sooner we realise that it accumulates and leads to negative effects on health, the better.
Noise messes with your sleep, your mood, and your health.
Even “normal” noise that you can ignore or not even hear, such as street sounds or music through a wall, can raise stress hormones and increase your risk of heart problems over time.
Simple things help: earplugs, white/pink noise, rearranging furniture, sealing window gaps, or using thick curtains.
If you feel tired, reactive, or overwhelmed often, you’re not being too sensitive. You’re living with an invisible stressor, and that matters to your health.
Tiny rituals (for example, cozy audio or a tech-free wind-down before relaxing) can help your body finally switch off.
You’ve had a long day. Work was chaotic. The commute back was even worse. All you want now is to sit down and slowly breathe out on your couch. Maybe even queue up a comfort show, and finally enjoy some peace.
But then out of nowhere – boom.
Your neighbour’s stereo kicks in like it’s 2004 and they’re DJing their own high school reunion. They just rediscovered the Black Eyed Peas. On full volume. And suddenly your quiet, your calm, your safe space? Gone.
Well, I’ve also been that neighbor sometimes. Last week, I rediscovered the CD on which my dad and I put every single Metallica song on. Obviously, I listened to it on my speakers, but still made sure they were not on full blast and that it wasn’t too late, when all my neighbors would be coming home too. I guess we’re not all that considerate.
Anywho, we usually brush this kind of noise off, or at least me. Maybe because I don’t want to seem petty. Or maybe because it feels like there’s not much we can do. What am I going to do, knock on their door every day?
But to be honest, after a while, after the same sound invasion, again and again, every afternoon, I started to wonder: what is this actually doing to me? Not just to my mood, but to my mind. My brain. My body.
Does this kind of level of stress just… sit there? Does it build up and come out sideways, like, for example, when I snap at someone at work for no real reason? Or maybe it’s the reason I can’t fall asleep at night, even when the apartment is finally quiet.
Turns out, after I dug into some articles, that there are effects on our bodies, caused by constant noise that irritates us, even subconsciously. And of course, I’m not the only one who’s noticed.
Dr. Arline Bronzaft, one of the leaders and innovators in noise research, puts it bluntly:
“Noise creates stress on the body – and can lead to physiological damage.”
She’s studied how things like traffic and airport noise disrupt sleep and how they have been linked to heart disease and cognitive issues, especially in children. Surprisingly, even moderate noise, she says, “diminishes quality of life” at home.
Why can’t we just tune noise out?
Here’s what really caught my attention. Even when you think you’re used to apartment noise, in reality, your brain isn’t.
The background thuds of someone walking upstairs, or the muffled phone call coming through the wall. And don’t get me started on my neighbour’s kitchen blender that apparently doubles as a jet engine.
We might be ignoring all of these sounds. But our nervous system? Not so much.
Our brain is wired to treat unexpected noise as a possible threat. That’s biology doing its job. Our bodies are making sure we’re alert in case something’s wrong around us. And while that’s helpful in a forest full of possible danger, it’s not so helpful when the only thing attacking you is a subwoofer through drywall.
This is what scientists call noise-induced stress activation.
It’s very subtle, and it doesn’t feel like a panic attack. But it still triggers your fight-or-flight response, about enough to raise your heart rate, tighten your muscles, and release stress hormones like cortisol. And here’s the crazy part, even if you don’t hear the noise consciously, your body still reacts to it.
“There are people who live on busy roads who say, ‘I don’t even hear the noise.’ But even if you don’t hear it…it is potentially still harmful to your health.”
His team found that even small increases in environmental noise, such as the typical daytime traffic, for example, can correlate with higher risks of heart attacks and strokes over time. Scary.
Furthermore, over time, this low-level activation builds up in your body, and the result is that you feel tired, irritable, and anxious. For example, the World Health Organization (WHO) has linked chronic noise exposure to everything from cognitive impairment and poor concentration to increased risk of cardiovascular issues.
Let’s pause here and debrief a bit.
You’re not being dramatic, and no, you’re not too sensitive. That low-level stress you feel after days or weeks of noisy interruptions is really your nervous system trying to protect you from a threat it never gets to escape.
And because this kind of noise doesn’t feel like a real problem, we rarely give ourselves permission to do anything about it, and even escape it, since it’s happening in our home.
Noise + sleep loss = A health storm in the making
You’ve finally climbed into bed, and the apartment is quiet. Your neighbour’s TV is off, the traffic has become almost none, and you’re ready to crash into your pillow.
But your body is, for some reason, still buzzing, still a bit tense, and still not quite “off.”
That’s the thing about chronic noise around you, even when it stops, your nervous system doesn’t flip off like a switch. Especially if you’ve been dealing with all of those noise disruptions throughout your day. Your brain stays in a kind of low-level alert mode because of that.
So you lie there with your eyes closed, tired from the day, but somehow still wide awake.
Let’s say you do fall asleep. Great, right? Well almost.
Studies from WHO show that even if you don’t consciously wake up, noise can pull your brain into lighter stages of sleep. It can cause tiny bumps in your sleep cycles that you don’t remember, but your body definitely does.
That means less deep sleep. Less REM. Less actual recovery.
That results in you waking up groggy on most days. Maybe even more irritable. Could feel as if you technically got 8 hours, but your body disagrees with you.
This kind of interrupted sleep is especially common in apartment buildings with thin walls, noisy neighbours, and traffic outside the window. And once it becomes normal, you stop noticing how much better your sleep could be, until you finally get one of those rare silent nights.
Irritability, anxiety, and mental fatigue
Have you had those days when you spill a little coffee, and suddenly it feels like the end of the world?
Or maybe someone asks you a simple question at work, and you snap at them a little. Not because you’re a bad person obviously. Not even because you’re in a bad mood. Out of nowhere, it’s as if your fuse is short. Like, comically short.
Sound familiar?
That’s not just you being sensitive. That’s emotional fatigue that happens, often brought on by invisible, low-level stressors like noise. And the worst part is that you usually don’t realise it’s the noise that’s doing it.
Is background noise connected to anxiety?
Even when you’re not consciously reacting to it, noise can quietly build up some anxiety in your mind and body over time.
Why? Well, because your nervous system is stuck in the ready mode I mentioned earlier. Your brain is scanning for the next interruption or danger. And your body stays slightly tense.
That constant state of low-key alertness is exhausting. It eats away at your emotional bandwidth, leaving you kind of with less patience, less focus, and less ability to self-regulate when something actually goes wrong.
You’re not imagining that your bad mood seems worse when you’re stuck in a noisy environment. It is indeed normal that environmental stressors like sound can increase negative emotions, especially in people already that are already prone to feeling anxiety or overwhelm.
Your body is trying to cope – so let’s help it
Here’s where things get a little more encouraging.
Yes, your environment matters, but your body is incredibly adaptable when it’s given a chance to recover. And even small actions, literally tiny, manageable ones, can help dial down the noise inside, even if you can’t control what’s outside.
So if you’re tired of feeling like you’re always on edge, always bracing for the next interruption? You’re not being dramatic. You’re being human.
There are things that you can try that actually make a difference. Let’s look at a few.
DIY tools that can actually help
Let’s be real. Most of us aren’t about to tear down our walls or move to a remote cabin in the woods.
So what can you actually do when the noise isn’t something you can control, but you still need to function, rest, and feel like yourself?
Here’s the good news: you don’t need to make huge changes. There are small, simple things that act like tiny shields, nothing dramatic, just enough to give your body and brain the needed break.
1. The surprisingly effective classic
The earplugs, and old-school, but seriously underrated. A good pair of foam or silicone earplugs won’t cancel out everything, but they will take the edge off the sharpest, most distracting sounds. Such as hallway stomping in the late hours, traffic, or that one chair your upstairs neighbor insists on dragging across the floor for some reason.
2. White noise (or pink, if you’re feeling fancy)
I used to roll my eyes at this one, I’ve heard so many people swear by it, until I tried it.
There’s something strangely soothing about giving your brain a consistent, non-distracting sound to focus on. White noise helps cover up all the unpredictable stuff and smooths it almost into one steady background layer.
Personally, I’ve found pink noise even better. It’s a little softer, deeper, feels a bit less hissy. There are many many types of similar noise you could try out, there is also brown noise that sounds like you are peacefully flying in an airplane.
And what if you’re not into abstract static? There’s a whole world of cozy audio out there. Lately, I’ve been falling asleep to a YouTube channel called Get Sleepy, which tells slow, peaceful bedtime stories. It’s like guided imagination for grown-ups.
What is also nice about this one, is that there is subtle background noise such as rain, birds, or anyhting peaceful that matches the story that’s being told by the host.
Small rituals before bed
Noise makes your nervous system feel like it needs to stay alert, as we by now have figured our. So sometimes, what helps most is sending your brain a different signal entirely.
Try building a few low-effort rituals into your day, and here’s what I’ve tried recently:
Play soft instrumental music or ambient rain sounds while winding down, bonus points if you add a cup of herbal tea to the mix
Put your phone on “Do Not Disturb” for the last 30 minutes before bed, no loud chimes coming from that small device
Light a candle and read a physical book, maybe a lifestyle magazine, basically anything that tells your body it’s okay to switch off now
None of this fixes the world outside your walls. But it gives your body moments of calm inside them. And that matters, honestly a lot more than we tend to give ourselves credit for.
Let’s wrap this blog up
You absolutely need your quiet time. So the next time someone tells you to just “get used to it”? Feel free to ignore that noise, too.
You deserve quiet. You deserve rest. Science has proved it so many times that it’s impossible to ignore.
And it’s absolutely okay to protect the space where your body and mind can finally exhale after a long day being busy.
